Dating and Meeting in Person as soon as Possible is Vital!!! | The ...

There was an article placed on linkedin.com.

And it?s about how meeting in person is a novel idea.

Here was my response:

Yes, I agree? I am an NLP Trainer and Master Hypnotherapist and I specialize in Communication and body language between men and women. And the best way to get to know someone is in person.

What I have found across the board, is that people will meet online, chat online for weeks, even more than a month nad then when they meet, it?s like they are meeting a completely different person. The image you make of them in your head through chatting online is completely different from who they really are as a person, which is expressed through their body language, tonality, tempo, rhythm, their inflections and much more?

I personally recommend meeting someone as fast as possible, in person, so that image of who you think they are does not get sunk into your head? And this way you can get to know them for who they really are a lot faster, but more importantly so you don?t waste months or even years chasing people online?

Dating and Relationship coach

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Now, here?s the deal. I have done more than my fair share of online dating. And I noticed an instinctual habit for women, is to chat and chat and chat and chat. And it can go on for weeks to even months! Then, when I would finally meet her, it?s like, who is this? This isn?t the person I met online! This isn?t the person I have been chatting with. It was like meeting a complete and total stranger. And, many times, women have the exact same experience. So, what I find really helps, is if you let her know up front about this phenomenon that I just mentioned.

Tell her that you have found this exact same thing to be true.

See, here?s what?s happening. If you have taken my course, you would clearly understand what is being triggered in women when it comes to online chatting and texting! Words, words, words! The females right brain loves, love, loves words? the more the better. They stimulate? her brain and literally get her high emotionally, just like when a guy watches his favorite football team win the super bowl. Or when he himself is playing in a championship game! WE LOVE IT!!!! IT?S AWESOME!

And that?s the way she feels through communicating. That?s why women absolutely love, love, love to talk, talk, talk, talk. It releases a Hormone called Oxytocin and floods her brain with this chemical? And this gets her high!!! It?s literally like a drug to women!

But, the problem is, when you chat online through email or typing or texting or whatever, you are not actually getting to know each other. It is extremely limited. Words alone only make up 7% of communication. The 93% of communication is all in the body language, the tone of your voice, the tempo, the rhythm you use and the way you say it! And that is how you get to know someone. And, it must be done in person.

So, early on, let her know that you don?t mind chatting online for a while, but you have had enough of these experiences where you waste a ton of time online and when you meet, it?s not the person who you thought they were. And also tell them how the brain/mind over time makes up an image in your head of who they are, and when you meet them in person, it?s never who they are, at all.
Now, she will love this, because if she has ever dated online, she knows how much of an absolute time waster it is? And when you talk about body language, tonality, tempo, rhythm and the waaaaay it is communicated or expressed, etc. etc. she will love it. She will know she found a man who actually understands the art of communication. And that my friends will trigger her mating system to want to have sex with you..

If you truly want to learn the art of communication and how women are sexually aroused, turned on and romanced, then give us a call here at MGK Enterprises: 415 456 8558

Mike Kollin

Dating and Relationship Coach

Male to Female Communication Expert

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